Have you been spinning your wheels for the last 6 months and thinking, when are things going to start to fall into place?

I’m sure we’ve all done this to ourselves at some point, and it doesn’t feel good.

The best thing you could do for yourself when this happens is to stop and take a break.

I know it sounds counter-intuitive, but it works.

You might be wondering … how does taking a break help?

For starters, it stops the negative momentum you’ve built up over the last 6 months. It also slows down those feelings of frustration and doubt when you wonder if you’ll actually get the very thing you want.

Let’s take a look at this in action.

Say you want to get more clients, but you’re thinking:

I haven’t had a new client in months now. (Doubt)

Every call I make ends with a “No.” (Insecurity)

I need to pay my bills. (Worry, Fear)

These thoughts do not support you in getting more clients, and the way these thoughts cause you to FEEL only results in you being more out of alignment.

In other words, your thoughts and how you feel are not in agreement with your desire for more clients. It’s this disagreement that causes your energy to be split.

In this example, you’re asking for more clients, but then your predominant thoughts and emotions are doubting it and looking for evidence for why it’s not happening.

Remember, you get what you focus on whether you want it or not.

So when will things finally fall into place? When will it be your season?

The short answer is: As soon as you come into vibrational alignment or agreement with what you want.

Start to notice how often you’re feeling doubtful, insecure or worried, and then raise your vibe.

How do you feel better? You can play your favorite music, visualize what you want, go for a walk, head to the gym for a workout.

Taking this much-needed break to raise your vibe will help you feel re-energized and re-inspired. And the best part is, now you put yourself in the position to have an idea for an action that could lead to your next paying client!

I remember once when I decided to stop trying so hard. I was done spinning my wheels and feeling in a fog, so I walked away from my work and sat in my living room to spend a few moments in quiet. I just sat there and noticed my thoughts without judgement. I allowed myself to stay in curiosity and breathed into how I was feeling. Within a couple of minutes, I felt calm, and out of nowhere an idea popped into my mind. I thought of an email I could send out to engage with my audience and because this idea excited me, I decided to take action.

Notice I felt better first and then took action. This is an example of taking inspired action.

I asked one question in this email:

How would you like to have more money in your life for less than the cost of a Starbucks venti latte?

Posing this one question led to 2 people signing up for my group coaching program.

You see, when you’re in alignment things come easily. Why? Because you have become a vibrational match to what you have asked for.

You don’t have to keep spinning your wheels and waiting forever for things to fall into place.

Our thoughts and emotions are energy, and when we think certain thoughts, they cause us to feel a certain way. Then we get a matching result.

Albert Einstein said, “Everything is energy, and that’s all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want, and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.”

We attract with our emotions, which range from low vibrational frequencies to higher ones.

Guilt, for example, is a low-frequency emotion. It even feels heavy and certainly weighs you down, unlike joy which is a high-frequency emotion. When you’re feeling joy, you feel so much lighter and even more expansive.

Going back to my earlier example; the thought, I haven’t had a new client in months now causes doubt, which is another low-frequency emotion.

Like the radio, you only hear the station that you’re tuned in to. You don’t choose the country station and expect to hear pop music. Right?

Emotions work the same way. You can’t spend more of your time worrying or doubting that you’ll get clients and then actually get them.

So long as you’re stuck in doubt, you’re not a vibrational match. You’re not tuned in.

When you notice what’s going on inside your mind and body, you can choose to raise your vibe to the frequency of what you want.

What will more clients bring you? Peace of mind, joy, excitement? How can you feel those emotions now?

Once you start feeling that joy you believe the clients will bring, you become a match.

There’s a lot more that goes into attracting what you want, and I’m happy to share how.

If you’d like to learn how you can align more easily with what you want, schedule a call and let’s chat.

On this Raise Your Vibe complimentary call, I’ll help you:

~ Get crystal clear on what you want;

~ Identify one way that you’re blocking yourself from having the success you want; and

~ Learn one strategy to help you access your confidence and take the next step to move you forward!

You can feel better and raise your vibe. Let me help you.