Want to attract your ideal clients with more ease?
Take a moment and just imagine waking up in the morning to the sound of PayPal notifications dinging on your phone, a steady flow of income, clients eagerly signing up with you…
More freedom for travel and excursions to the beautiful places on your bucket list, and more time for fun and play with your family.
This can be your reality.
But maybe right now, you’re spending more time creating content that you feel is valuable and posting it on your biz page and in other people’s FB groups.
You take action and start to lose steam because you’re not getting the results you want, and you’re thinking, What am I missing?
I totally get it. I remember my eyes glazing over and no longer being able to see the words on the screen in front of me. After blinking a few times, my eyes focused in on the numbers at the top right of my laptop… 10:00 pm, and I’m still fussing over finding just the right words to use in my post so I can get some likes, comments, and maybe a Gif!
Why is it that other entrepreneurs are getting lots of engagement and talking about signing new clients and doubling their monthly income, and here I am working round the clock and nada?
You see, there are 2 key differences between those who are attracting their ideal clients and those who are putting in the effort with not much to show for it.
First Key: Believe in what you cannot yet see!
Let me ask you…
Can you see your ideal clients right now in your mind?
OR
Are you waiting to have the clients before you can truly see them and believe it’s possible?
Waiting to see the evidence before you’re willing to believe is a backwards way of thinking. You need to 100% believe in what you cannot yet see. Why? Because we create everything with our thoughts, words, and feelings. Plus, your mind thinks in pictures; so if you fill it with thoughts of how you can’t attract clients or how hard it is, these are the images you will have in the back of your mind and that’s all you will see evidence of. If I tell you not to think of an elephant wearing sunglasses, what immediately pops into your mind? See how this works?
Your thoughts create mental images and you see the world through that filter.
So one key to getting what you want is to be able to SEE it first in your mind and start talking and acting as if you already have the clients. I know this can be hard and feel like a waste of time, but it’s a step that goes a long way in regards to your success.
Ever talk about the new car you want to get and suddenly you’re seeing it everywhere on the road? That’s your reticular activating system in your brain filtering in what your subconscious mind is seeing and thinking about. So start seeing and thinking about your ideal clients and you’ll put yourself in a position to actually connect with them in some way. In fact, you might already be talking to your ideal client but you don’t even see it because more of your focus is on NOT attracting clients and how hard it is. Keep your eyes on the road!
Second Key: Be mindful of the words you think and speak. They hold power!
Are you telling yourself…
📣 I can’t seem to find paying clients?
📣 I feel like I’m not good enough and that I don’t know enough yet.
Or something along these lines?
Take a minute to tune in and ask yourself how these words make you feel? Imagine taking a spin class and the instructor starts yelling out, “That’s right, you CAN’T do it! Who do you think you are! You’re never going to be able to finish this class! You DON’T have what it takes!” Shall I go on, or do you get my point?
The instructor brings her students to the end of the hour by feeding them with words that motivate them and help them focus on what IS possible!
Same goes for you when attracting your ideal clients. You must start planting good seeds in your mind that you have what it takes. You already know enough and are smart enough. You CAN help transform people’s lives and businesses.
Believing in what you cannot yet see and choosing words that motivate you and point you in the direction of where you want to go are the foundation of success in your business. You can have the frameworks, systems, and models all in place, but your thoughts, words, feelings, and actions must also be in alignment.
So, what vision do you see for your business? You get to see it however you want to. It’s your imagination and like Mike Dooley says, thoughts become things. Begin with your thoughts and attract the clients and everything else your heart desires!
